Wise Women Reveal Which Beauty Standards They Refuse to Adhere to in Empowering Online Discussion: 'I refuse to get fillers'

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    18 r/AskWomen u/Fun Butterscotch3303 6d What is a beauty standard that you refuse to adhere to?
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    tvp204.6d I plan to go gray naturally, whenever that starts. I won't be dying my hair ... Reply 1.2k
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    cubatista92. 6d I don't mind the gray, but the texture of hair changes and I'm concerned about having never strands of hair. I'll need to invest in hair treatments that haven't been part of my routine. ... 162
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    belckie • 6d Don't be too worried I have a medium amount of gray hair and for the most part mine are growing in straighter than my other hair. I can only speak for Caucasian hair but it doesn't always grow in more textured. ... ✩ 46
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    TheScarletFox • 6d If it makes you feel better, I'm 34 and let me hair go gray a few years ago and my texture stayed the same. I have straight fine hair and am about 80% gray. 23
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    snarkyBtch 6d I'm 45 and have been covering my gray for the last 15 years- i have a stripe right down the middle like a skunk. This summer I decided to embrace it. Since it's dark, it looks sloppy now as it grows out, but I'm hoping for sophisticated later once the lines are gone. ... ← 13
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    celestialism. 6d I have a big nose and will not get it surgically altered. ... Reply 870
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    c05u • 6d Im a big big fan of big noses on men and women. It's such a beautiful feature. ... 173
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    strkravinmad. 6d I (female) have sort of a big Roman nose and have been told by men I've dated that it's one of the features they like about me. I don't love it, personally, but it's me, and the compliments only bolster my decision not to change it. ... ← 65
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    TheGreatNyanHobo ⚫ 6d For populations where the big nose is normal, many people don't even question it. As an example, there were some Italian tourists on the subway in nyc the other day. All of them had the high bridge on their noses. I thought it looked good and like a mark of their Italian-ness. Meanwhile I've always disliked it on myself. 41
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    elevatorfloor • 6d I have a big nose too, it's wide and has an uneven bump on the top. I've always hated it and since I was about 14, I've SWORN I was going to get a nose job. Now that I'm in my 30s I go back and forth. I'm not that into the idea anymore. It freaks me out that I won't look like myself anymore ← Ŵ 14 ♡
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    missgirl_x. 6d Fillers in my lips. Never doing that. It looks too fake Reply 640
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    Holiday Control9. 6d Fake eyelashes Reply 476
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    galumphix 6d They're so strange to me. Like why glue something to your face? 49
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    elevatorfloor • 6d I have blonde hair and my lashes are tiny and light. My eyes look bald. I love that I can roll out of bed in the morning and look put together without anything else. ... ← 83
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    notsobrooklyn • 5d I wear them all the time! The styles you can get are so much more fun than your standard mascara, which will look exactly the same every time. I like playing around with makeup, matching foxy lashes to a sharp liner or fluffy ones to a doe-eyed look. And some of us have natural lashes, so we need a lil help lol 30
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    chrismo17. 6d Shaving my legs. Too much effort and maintenance Reply 291
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    cocobootyslap • 6d Armpits too! I actually find that on the rare occasion I do shave my armpits my BO is worse than when I let it grown out ... 105
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    Novelist97 6d I so wish this was true for me. I get way too smelly if I don't shave my pits, so I always have to keep them shaved even though I get razorburn no matter what I do. ... 68
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    RosemarySaraBlack. 6d 오 Wearing make up Reply 274
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    Granny_knows_best. 6d I never liked it. I know I look better with it, but I feel fake and it makes my skin feel gross. ← 72
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    Civil_Hearing1043. 6d Same. I don't have the time or the patience for makeup. Plus it's so expensive. ... ← 46
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    perkasami • 6d My entire life, I've only really worn makeup on rare occasions. It's kept my skin so much healthier. I enjoy it when I wear it, but it's honestly way too much of a hassle to do on a regular basis, and I enjoy how I look without it. Wearing it on a regular basis would take away the fun of it for me and would just ruin my skin. ... 20
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    AllForMeCats • 5d I like wearing makeup occasionally, because it can be fun, but daily makeup? Nah. ... 12
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    WrestlingWoman • 6d Tanning, makeup, fashion, high heels. Almost anything that is being dictated we're supposed to like as a woman. I don't like any of those things. No shame on people that do. It's just not for me. ... Reply 137
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    Logical_Soup • 6d Fake nails and lashes. Don't like appointments and to be tied to maintenance sessions like that, which if I don't do I look dusty Reply 105
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    ThatsltlmOverThis ⚫ 6d Trends. I think it's the dumbest thing in the world to buy things to look a certain way because everyone else is. So dumb. ... ← Reply 99
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    shrimply_the_worst ⚫ 6d • Not getting double eyelid surgery, even though it's been suggested to me multiple times. I love my monolids. Reply 80
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    Novelist97 6d I can't imagine anything scarier than eye surgery. Are there any non-aesthetic reasons someone would get this surgery? I don't have monolids but I think they're pretty. 21
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    shrimply_the_worst. 6d There can be some cases, especially with age, where the sagging skin blocks your peripheral vision. Other than that I think it's mostly aesthetic. 14
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    KILLER KVQ516-6d VOIDQUEEN Fillers. : Reply 69
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    Ok_Ear_2568. 6d Big, long, talon-like acrylic nails. Not for me. Reply 50
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    ejmw1021 . 6d Straightening my hair. I have naturally very curly hair, and I used to straighten it. I always hated hearing "you look so much prettier with your hair straight! You should do it more often" I embrace the curls now Reply 42
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    noncomitalrenagade • 6d Straightening hair is futile! Tired arms, burned fingertips and ears, and the awful smell of hair grease mixed with dry shampoo residue because you had to go to the gym. It gets too humid or just a little bit damp. It's all over. 16
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    galumphix 6d Hairlessness. I'm not a child. Reply 24
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    Cautious_Ice_884. 6d A 10+ product skincare routine. Firstly, I don't have the time or the money for that. Secondly, the basics of having a good cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen really go a long way. Reply 24
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    megawatt69 6d Pretty much all of them but especially high heels. There's nothing good about heels, they hurt Reply 15
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    downthegrapevine • 6d Flattering clothing. Do you know what's flattering? Feeling good in your clothes. Besides, it's always about looking skinnier and f that. Reply 15
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    Desperate-Exit692 • 6d Anything that alters my physical appearance. Im okay with dressing up, makeup, getting my hair done to enhance my natural beauty, but I will not edit myself to fit your cookie cutter beauty standard Reply 11

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